A Guide to Engagement Rings in the Philippines

An engagement in the Philippines is more than just a proposal — it’s a journey rooted in tradition, love, and family.

For nearly six decades, Miladay Fine Jewels has been part of countless Filipino love stories. From the first conversation to the moment you say “I do,” here’s how the journey often unfolds — and where the engagement ring fits in.

1. Asking for Her Hand

In many Filipino families, the journey begins when the groom-to-be respectfully asks the bride-to-be’s father (or parents) for her hand in marriage. This moment reflects honor, tradition, and a deep commitment to the family you’re joining.

2. Choosing the Engagement Ring

Once the blessing is received, it’s time to choose the ring — a symbol of love, a promise of forever, and the centerpiece of your proposal. This is where the journey becomes truly personal.

She may be drawn to a classic diamond solitaire — the kind that catches the light, and your breath, with a single glance. For some, the solitaire shines even more with side stones on the band, a halo of smaller diamonds framing the center stone, or a three-stone setting representing the past, present, and future of your love.

But styles have evolved, and love stories now wear many forms. Some couples choose black diamond engagement rings for their quiet drama and modern edge. Others are enchanted by colored gemstones — a deep blue sapphire for loyalty, a rich red ruby for passion, or a vivid green emerald for hope and new beginnings.

For the most personal touch, many turn to custom engagement rings. This collaborative process allows you to select every detail — from the diamond shape and setting to the metal color and engraving — ensuring the ring is as unique as your story.

When selecting the perfect engagement ring in the Philippines, consider not only beauty but also your beloved’s lifestyle and taste. Does she prefer minimal elegance or bold sparkle? Will she wear the ring daily in an active environment, or mostly on special occasions? Think about her existing jewelry style, the metals she favors, and even the way she dresses.

3. The Proposal

This is the moment your love story takes center stage. Whether it’s a grand gesture or an intimate moment, the engagement ring is presented as a lasting symbol of your commitment.

4. Pamamanhikan

After the proposal comes pamamanhikan — a cherished Filipino tradition where the groom’s family visits the bride’s family to formally ask for her hand and discuss wedding plans. It’s a warm, heartfelt gathering where two families officially become one.

5. Wedding Preparations & Beyond

From here, the focus shifts to planning the wedding and choosing other meaningful pieces — such as wedding bands, pearl earrings, or gold jewelry to wear on the big day. Many couples return to Miladay for these pieces, building a collection that will be treasured for generations.

Find Your Engagement Ring at Miladay

At Miladay Fine Jewels, every engagement ring is crafted with love, precision, and the highest standards of craftsmanship. Whether you’re looking for a diamond engagement ring in the Philippines, a custom-made design, or a timeless classic, we’re here to help you find the perfect piece to begin your forever.

Visit our stores or shop online today to explore our Engagement Collection — and let your love story shine, one beautiful stone at a time.